Relationship Readiness Assessment

I may become destructive, threatening, desperate, or deeply unstable. I struggle to stay steady. It depends on the situation. I can usually feel hurt without losing wisdom. I can handle disappointment without damaging myself or another person.

I may punish a new person for old pain. Old pain affects me more than I want. I am still healing some areas. I usually notice old pain before it takes over. I have faced enough old hurt to love with more freedom.

I quickly feel insecure or desperate. I become anxious and may pressure the person. Sometimes I stay steady and sometimes I struggle. I usually remain steady. I can stay secure without needing constant attention.