Generation Gap Assessment

I quickly dismiss the person as old-fashioned, rude, childish, or disrespectful. I listen, but judgement comes fast. Sometimes I listen well and sometimes I do not. I usually listen before judging. I listen for the heart behind the words before responding.

I may shout, sulk, mock, preach, or shut down. I speak, but the other person may feel attacked or afraid. Sometimes it is clear and sometimes tense. I usually explain myself with respect. I can speak honestly without removing dignity from the other person.

I usually assume I already know. I ask only after tension has grown. Sometimes I ask and sometimes I assume. I usually ask before concluding. I ask questions that help both sides understand each other.